Kahani ghar ghar ki (Tale of every house)

For quite some time I wanted to share my views on harmony in marriage
I really wonder why a couple who live together have children & love each other start drifting apart. Some point of time they become indifferent to each other or even start hating each other. This is what brings divorce or separation between a couple.

Many couple do stay together for various reasons but as strangers (Ek chat ke neche bhi log ajnabi hote hain). There may be sex without love. Finances & children are two basic ones. Any relationship requires nurturing else it becomes a wild shrub.

Sensitivity, understanding & acceptance are the ingredients of a successful marriage. It is said that for a marriage to work the man has to become deaf & wife blind. I think there is a grain of truth in it. There is a fine line between ego & self respect. I wonder where adjustment ends & one becomes a door mat.

Would like to have the views of the readers.